Most of us have experienced rejection at some point in our lives. It’s not pleasant. When it happens it doesn’t feel like there’s an upside. It just feels personal and can hit us at our very core.
It’s perhaps not much of a surprise then to discover that the experience of a rejection, activates the same area of our brain as when we experience physical pain. Our brain sends us the same powerful signals. We feel emotional pain.
Rejection damages our mood and self worth. It provokes feelings of anger, resentment and aggression. Sometimes it can even make us vengeful.
Recruitment – whether in-house or agency – necessitates rejecting candidates. It’s part and parcel of the job. For every successful candidate, there are far more who don’t make it to the finishing post. Which means we have to deliver, proportionally, more negative news than we do positive.
Of course, with so much of recruiting activity weighted towards success – finding the right candidate, filling a vacancy and pleasing our clients – we place much less value on the impact we’ve had on those left by the wayside. Besides which, it make us feel great to deliver good news – who doesn’t want to tell a candidate ‘you’ve got the job’. We are much less motivated to speak to the candidates for whom we don’t have good news.
That’s a big mistake.
The candidate experience
The phrase ‘candidate experience’ has become shorthand to signify the idea that we are re-focusing on the individual – putting them at centre stage. But candidate experience doesn’t bare that out. In a survey conducted by CareerArc they found that 60% of job applicants had a poor candidate experience. A ‘critical blindspot’ for most employers was the experience of the rejected candidate.
Hell hath no fury like a candidate scorned. A recent study found that 72% of candidates who felt they had a negative experience of a recruitment process would turn to social media and review sites to vent their frustrations. That’s a very vocal majority. The candidate who got the job may well have found your recruitment process faultless, but they are much less interested in taking to social media to sing your praises – after all – they’ve got a new job to do.
A candidate who feels let down by your recruitment process and has negative comments to share has a much a further reach and field of influence than you imagine. Word of mouth is doing untold damage to employment brands that fail to treat unsuccessful candidates with the same degree of care and professionalism as their successful counterparts.
It’s how you make people feel
Rejecting candidates the right way
- Don’t leave it to the candidate to chase you for news. It’s all too easy to view informing the rejected candidates as part of the clearing-up process at the end.
- Accept that you are delivering disappointing news. You can’t dress it up. This isn’t the outcome your candidate was hoping for. And that’s ok. Trying to put a positive spin on bad news is denying your candidate of the validity of their feelings.
- Get straight to the point. Deliver the news right away. Save giving and collecting feedback for later in the conversation. Use verbal indicators to signal that it’s not the outcome they wanted ‘ I’m sorry, but despite being a strong candidate…’ or ‘I’m afraid, on this occasion….’ Using cushioning words gives candidates a moment to ready themselves for disappointment.
- Give honest, specific and personalised feedback. A candidate who comes in for an interview deserves more than a generic rejection letter. Receiving constructive criticism is one of the most valuable out-puts from an interview that a candidate can get. So make sure you do. If you aren’t able to give insightful feedback to a shortlisted candidate you aren’t interviewing effectively in the first place.
- Keep the door open. Perhaps this candidate wasn’t right for right-now. That doesn’t mean they won’t be right in the future.
- Seek feedback yourself. There’s a great deal you can learn about your recruitment process from the candidate you’ve rejected. This is an invaluable opportunity to collect honest and meaningful information about what you are doing well, and what’s working poorly.
Putting people before processes
It’s easy, as recruitment processes become automated and data-driven, to forget that it’s our human interactions that have the greatest impact on how we feel. People may well be our most important resource, but all too often we fail to put our humanity at the centre of our approach. It’s our feelings and beliefs about an organisation that really distinguishes a good employer brand from a great one.
Imagine if a company that you applied to, interviewed with, and were rejected by, still kept talking to you, even though you didn’t get the job. It would communicate something very powerful about that business. It would suggest a level of engagement extending beyond linear candidate transactions. Even a candidate that’s been rejected for a job might still find themselves saying “It’s the type of place I would like to work”. That’s the kind of endorsement every employer should be aiming for.